What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Although many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really love that touches. The hands of the giver are connected with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be caring!
Complete of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on providing or getting the massage. An extremely mindful touch from the heart. Receive likewise really purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question. Everything happens in the moment, completely awareness, adoringly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about a fixed result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the method or the desired series of massaging that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore typically take a really surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in happiness.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long period of time, obviously, however because the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly must be ensured. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear borders beforehand
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise entirely ok (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ development/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural happy state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however usually, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands different methods to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (delighted) state of being.
Typically resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
Tantra assists you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving and so far more. Really, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what takes place frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is totally permitted! A tantra massage is usually great, in some cases tasty. We, therefore, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and Taatric Massage Kensington techniques in typical. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Not Therapy
Well since you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply excellent conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need totally free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Do not only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) minutes.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried with exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own problems and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Absolutely nothing has to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Once again, do not try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are dissatisfied when somebody falls asleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No intended result. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. satisfaction sounds) and provide integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you learn exactly what it is like to love yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might end up being not only happy but even joyous. A delighted state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the much better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a terrific physical, psychological well-being (of both).